Thrivers
by Michele Borba
Key Concepts
Empathy First
Teach children to understand and share the feelings of others to build strong connections.
Self-Control Mastery
Equip kids with the ability to manage impulses and regulate emotions for better decision-making.
Integrity Matters
Instill a strong moral compass, guiding children to act honestly and ethically even when difficult.
Perseverance Power
Foster grit and resilience, teaching children to overcome setbacks and persist towards goals.
Optimism Outlook
Cultivate a positive mindset, helping kids see challenges as opportunities for growth.
Action Items
Prioritize character development over academic achievement alone.
Create opportunities for children to practice empathy through service or helping others.
Teach specific self-regulation techniques like deep breathing or "think before you act."
Allow children to experience and learn from failure, fostering resilience.
Model the seven essential character strengths in your daily life.
Praise effort and process, not just outcomes, to build perseverance.
Core Thesis
Raising "thrivers" means intentionally cultivating seven essential character strengths that foster resilience, empathy, and lasting success in children.
Mindset Shift
The book shifts the parenting focus from solely academic or external achievements to intentionally nurturing the internal character strengths essential for true well-being and success.